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Tray Balancing Tips & Tricks
by Neon


"Queen of Flowers" DVD - Neon's flower-tray instructional

I often receive e-mails from dancers asking for tips and tricks useful in learning tray balancing. Here a slightly expanded version of what I usually offer advice-wise.

TRAYS
The best sources of trays are eBay or flea markets - especially for trays like mine: silverplated round ornate replicas of baroque trays. This type is quite heavy which is great for balancing. Another option is Moroccan-style or an Indian brass tray.

My trays are round, 17+ inches (about 43 centimeters across). The only drawback is that they make you look shorter, so, if height is an issue, a smaller tray or 2.5"-heel shoes are the way to go. I wear 3"-heel shoes as well.

My favorite tray has a couple of off-center dents on the bottom. If your tray has any irregularities that may affect its weight distribution, find the position in which it is most steady. Put the tray on your head and tilt your head lightly right-left, then front-back, then turn the tray 90 degrees, and repeat the head tilting test. You will notice that the tray wobbles less in particular orientation. When you have found this position, mark the "Front" with a marker or a sticker and from now on put the tray on your head "Front forward" every time.

I dance with tall candles on my tray, or with a cake for birthday parties (don't forget to pull the doily from under the cake so that it doesn't move on the tray), or with an arrangment made from five dozen roses. I usually play zils while dancing with a tray at parties, and often combine tray and veil.

I arrange the candles on the tray differently depending on the type of the tray and its peculiarities in its natural weight distribution. My usual arrangement consists of 18 candles. The candles on my tray vary in height - the tallest ones in the middle are about 10". My safety check is to make sure that I can't touch the ceiling of my dance space when I hold my arm straight up (I have long arms!) In many Oriental-theme clubs tent-like ceilings or tassels hanging from the ceiling demand a much shorter candle height.

I attach the candles to the tray with a candle adhesive (such as "Stick-Um" -brand candle adhesive) sold in candle and interior decoration shops. Balancing objects not attached to the tray (such as a tea service) is a wonderful skill to possess, but this type of act does not excite jaded New Yorkers. The things we balance here must be in-your-face: Blazing fire or a deadly weapon (a sword!), or both. When I do shows on the dance floor of "mega clubs," with the crowd pressing on, I keep the candle tray on my head for the full 20 minutes of my show - it's the only way to guarantee that the crowd doesn't invade my dance space. Note that your candles must be dripless, smokeless, and, if you dance in a small space, flavor-less.

TRUE BALANCING
Perform only true balancing, no tricks, no adhesives, no velcro attached to the bottom of the tray. Audience members often ask to hold the tray, try balancing it and they are not shy about inspecting it. If they discover a trick, your number will be ruined.



BALANCING EXERCISES
Learning to perform smooth and well-articulated hipwork won't be too hard. The most difficult part in my experience is to isolate the movement of your chest and upper body from your head and neck. The exercises that will help you achieve this are chest circles and infinity loops. Balance an object on your head and try a horizontal chest circle and infinity loop of the chest; then proceed to vertical chest circles and the resulting full-body regular and reversed undulations.

I have a method to check if you have indeed achieved the required degree of isolation: With an object on your head - kneel, lie down and roll on the floor. If you can do this without losing the tray, you are there.

VEIL
If you combine veil and tray (and if you add zils to veil and tray!) I urge you to consider using lipstick sealer on top of your lipstick, so that it doesn't come off on the veil, and so that if your hair falls on your face when you dance, it doesn't stick to your lips. If you need more shine to sculpt your lips, take shimmer powder, or glitter and dab it on top of the lipstick sealer.


CANDLE TRAY ANECDOTES
#1 Birthday Cake
A lavish private birthday event on Atlantic Beach. Upon arrival on the scene I realized that I would dance on a vast deck overlooking the ocean in windy conditions. It was clear that the candle tray act was out of the question. The hostess was disappointed that there would be no balancing act. I said, "Bring me the Cake." The Cake was a large, heavy ornate thing blooming with expansive gardens of chocolate and cream roses. It sat on a perfect round steel tray. I took the tray from her hands, threw it on my head casually and did the show.
#2 Disaster Management
At a restaurant private party - about 5 min. into my show - the music suddenly stopped. I took the tray off my head and offered it to the enthusiastic audience to satisfy their curiosity and prove there was no "glue" or velcro used to "attach" the tray to my head. The party guests were thrilled, they tried balancing the tray one by one totally unaware that the music was gone. 15 min. into the show, no music. The restaurant staff was struggling with the stereo system. When the tray-balancing zeal started to wear out, I summoned girls from the audience and taught them dance moves to the loud cheering of the crowd -- I counted and clapped, and, to my amazement, the audience was still unaware of the music disaster. When the music came back on, I invited the birthday boy to dance. He wanted to learn hip shimmy. I showed him what to do, he did it with such vigour and abandon, that the buckle of his belt went undone and his pants fell to the floor -- all the way, to the uncontrollable screaming of the entire restaurant. I fled.

 

Comments
bellydancerinfo
Neon, I am so thrilled you have written this article! It was just what I was looking for! I have done the candleabrum- but it is just not practical in NYC. The next thing is to purchase a tray and your video! I am so excited! Thank you so much for these tips! Sarah

IsisAmar
I perform to candle tray but your article gave me new ideas and tips. Thanks for the article Neon, Isis Amar www.IsisAmar.com

Aasal
Hi Neon, I thought I share some of the points that I go through when teaching a candle tray workshop Candle tray workshop by Aasal El Helwa * Remember that balancing a tray on your head, is a great prop but also an act of responsibility, therefore, always be the one to place your candles on your tray and the one to place other things like finger cymbals, etc. *Practice makes Masters, make sure you practice a lot, in front and away from a mirror, you can never practice enough! *Before attempting to include a tray with candles in your performance, make sure you are very comfortable with it. *Like I mentioned before it is also about responsibility, make sure that you know if your performing venues have any fire regulations, if so take the required actions like getting fire proof fabric for your costume, tie your hair, maintain your distance from flammable objects, and if unable to perform with fire... Tea jars and fancy looking cups are always a great replacement, but don't forget to practice! * If in need of a new or want variety of trays, my first choice is always Flea Markets and Antique Shops. * I recommend the use of a product called Stick'um to fix the candles on the tray, other people have report that play dough also works very well, whatever you choice is always make sure that you can flip over your tray and nothing will fall. * Sadly there is little or almost no room for mistakes when balancing a tray with lit candles on your head... if for some reason you are unable to continue your show with a tray on your head and have a couple of minutes left with music, you are totally allowed to remove your tray put away in a professional way and "SAVE YOUR SHOW" I have seen tons of great dancers drop a sword and still the audience forgives them. Lots of love and I love the idea of the roses. Aasal El Helwa.